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01/01 is the numeric equivalent of a refresh button and inspires resolutions, vision boards and new goals. I enjoy this refresh because I love setting goals, making to-do lists and tracking accomplishments. This attribute is a strength of mine, but also hinders creativity. In addition to my to do list interfering with writing, there’s the siren call of digital distractions. It starts with picking up the phone to see if anyone texted, which leads to opening email, then checking the weather and then the news for the latest debacle. Any creative flow I have becomes damed. That’s why my goal for 2026 is to do nothing and be bored more often. By nothing, I don’t mean meditation, where we’re focused on labeling distracting thoughts and returning to a focus. I mean NOT engaging in a goal directed activity and allowing our minds to wander freely. It doesn’t have to be absolutely nothing, but something repetitive like gardening, a quiet walk, watching the birds, or staring into a fire or at the water. Research supports the benefits of doing nothing. When our brain is not actively focused on a goal, the default mode network (DMN) activates. This network is composed of the ventromedial prefrontal cortex, the dorsomedial prefrontal cortex and the cingulate cortex. When turned on, the DMN:
I have the privilege of watching the magic of the DMN at work in my counseling practice. With a new client I share my belief that they have the answers for their lives within, and counseling creates a distraction free space to tap into that inner wisdom. When I ask a question and the client doesn’t immediately respond, I’ve learned to hold that space, and be quiet, something I wasn’t comfortable doing as a novice counselor. The client stares off into space while I wait. Usually within a minute, they look back at me and say, “maybe I’m feeling this way because of…..” or “I’ve never thought of it this way but…” If they didn’t have the courage to come to counseling, and I wasn’t comfortable with silence, the DMN would not have been activated, and it would be more challenging for this client to self reflect and identify the source of their feelings. Despite the benefits, we often resist being bored and turning on the DMN because it feels uncomfortable. This discomfort is partially because we’re out of practice with boredom and deciding how to fill free time, and partially because self reflection, activated by the DMN, brings up challenging issues we may be avoiding, as well as existential topics we’re not prepared to deal with, like our purpose in life, or our inner longings. Within a few inches there’s a device to distract us with a YouTube video, pod cast or news update so we don’t have to think about these things. BUT, how can we have a life of meaning, creativity, and connection, to ourself and others, if we don’t learn to befriend boredom and create pockets of time that aren’t focused on a goal oriented activity? Whether you want to create art, explore your life purpose, identify solutions to current challenges, or make plans to manifest your ideal future, activating the DMN will help you. Have I convinced you to join me in doing nothing in 2026? If so, here are some simple ways to integrate more “nothing time” into your day.
I’d love to hear from you! Please share in the comments ways you’ll do nothing and be bored in 2026 :) “When you trust in rest, you trust in your own creative depths. When you allow boredom, you invite the unexpected. And when you protect spaciousness, you give your imagination the conditions it needs to thrive.” from Create Me Free Substack blog by Kathryn Vercillo. *If you have PTSD, depression or anxiety, your default mode network may be hyper-connected resulting in self criticism, over thinking and intrusive thoughts. If this is the case, I recommend addressing this with a counselor or psychiatrist, and adding meditation to your daily routine which helps quiet an overactive default mode network*
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Eleazar Yisrael
1/3/2026 12:13:01 pm
In 2026, im looking forward to doing nothing by setting aside time everyday to learn an instrument 🤗
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Heather
1/4/2026 08:39:16 am
Playing an instrument is definitely a good way to tap into creativity and immerse yourself in the moment.
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Nancy Davis
1/3/2026 04:34:11 pm
I am experiencing boredom while recovering from COVID. I appreciate this article that reminds me how refreshing "boredom" can be. My mind has wandered today to when I lived on a barrier island and walked each day by the marsh with the eagles and the deer. I will walk each day in 2026 allowing my mind to wander, doing nothing as I walk.
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Heather
1/4/2026 08:41:33 am
I'm glad this blog helped you reframe your downtime as you recover from COVID. I love your goal of walking. It's a trifecta, helps your physical health, activates your DMN and gives you time in nature. Happy New Year.
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